Where did the love go?

Thankfully my dating days are behind me, but I honestly feel for my many friends who are still searching for "the one". In this day & age when strangers can instantly connect through the magic of internet sites like eHarmonyand jdate, or face-to face dating opportunities, including It's Just Lunch and Hurry Date speed dating, one would think that a love connection would be made among more couples.

What is the deal? There are so many intelligent, attractive professionals who simply keeping missing the Love Boat. It is literally like ships passing in the night. I have listened to countless friends, both men & women, who are frustrated that they cannot find someone to settle down with, much less someone worthy enough of a third date. I am running out of advice to give.

Oy Vey! Jewpardy

These are Shabbat candles given to me by my brother & sister-in-law many years ago, depicting Jerusalem's Wailing Wall and Temple.

Passover (Pesach) is just 14 days away, Oy Vey!! Families everywhere are preparing for Seders where 10-20 people will cram around a dinner table to answer our traditional Four Questions, especially “Why is this night different from all other nights?” In the meantime, children will wonder where the Afikoman will be hidden & who will be the first to find the treasured matzoh?! I have always enjoyed the 2nd Night Pesach Seders in my Temple, where a mix of very young & old come together to participate in our age-old traditions and the children learn new things from the elders about Jewish history. Jewpardy is a great game for kids to play online to get them ready for Passover. It is a Jewish-style Jeopardy game where kids (of all ages) can answer questions like “How many days was the plague of darkness?” Or “How many days are we commanded not to eat leavened food?” I admit that I have become an addict and I am sure to be ready this Pesach with inquiries that extend beyond the Four Questions this holiday.

BTW, the answers to the above questions are: the plague of darkness was three days & we must abstain from leavened bread & food for seven days.

Prepping up the office

I've decided to prep up my office a bit. Although I have had a few preppy notepads and folders on my desk, the trickle has become a flood and I didn't even realize it. My colleague, Amy, walked into my office & the pink and green just jumped out and sucked her right in! Ironically, I hadn't even noticed how much of it was now siting on my desk, including my new "preppy debutante" mug that my sister & I made while painting ceramics with my niece, Alex. By the week's end, I think some of the guys will be donning the preppy colors in their offices too! The biggest eye-catcher is my Mac Book Pro, which is pink with my monogram. For most, the preppy laptop is hard to miss.

I don't even have a basement!

This is my TV commercial for Owens Corning basement refinishing-

No Comment!!

Special thanks to those of you who have been following my blog for the past year. As you can see, it has now been transferred to the blogspot, which caused a bit of a glitch. I could not transfer any of the comments in the archived blogs & some of the previous blog entries were lost-actually about a dozen entries didn't make the transfer :( Needless to say, now that I have a new home here, I look forward to reading your remarks.

Les Soeurs Fideles

Today Phi Mu Fraternity chapters across the country celebrated Founder’s Day, honoring our three founding sisters, Mary Ann Dupont, Mary Elizabeth Myrick, and Martha Bibb Hardaway. Our organization is 157 years-old -this year. Founded at Wesleyan College in 1852 as the Philomathean Society, we have more than 150, 000 initiated sisters. I have never met so many incredibly accomplished women in one place. It is amazing how one can travel anywhere in the country and run into a fabulous Phi Mu sister! I have a Phi Mu castle That's filled with treasures old Of days I've spent with you my dear Phi Mu. I would not trade my castle for a million filled with gold For mine is far the richest of them all. Its windows sparkle and reflect The sunshine from within Each doors wide open to each true Phi Mu And if you have seen it too, then may I walk with you, Up the trail To my castle Of Phi Mu.

Valentine's Day in the Big Apple

Anyone who knows me well, or even remotely, knows that NYC is one of my favorite places in the world. Growing up in DC & Maryland, the Big Apple was a simple three hour train ride away. It is also a great get-a-way for Valentine’s Day! Although NYC has had bitterly cold temps lately, it is well worth it to be in such a beautiful city. We brought the typical winter gear, though the weather gave us a reprieve for a couple of beautiful days. A stay at the Waldorf=Astoria sets the stage for a very romantic stay. As a Junior League member, the Waldorf is a favorite for many of us, especially because of its history and the special relationship the hotel has had with our organization over the years. I don’t often do the tourist sites while in NYC, though I did many times in high school. I like to stick to the boutiques, shops & museums that border the residential neighborhoods. On this trip, it was a typical visit to the “Mecca” pictured above, the RL Mansion on Madison. Ralph Lauren has a few shops along Madison, obviously one of the reasons I love the city that doesn’t sleep! Speaking of not sleeping, after a late meal at Nikki Beach, we did check out one major tourist stop- the Empire State Building at 2A.M.! It was freezing, but at this time of morning, there are no lines and you will only encounter a dozen or so other people. It is as if the ESB is your personal playground this early in the morning. Another great place to visit is The Jewish Museum on Fifth Avenue and 92nd Street. A long walk down Madison Avenue warrants some refueling at Yura On Madison. They have some amazing soup and perfect cup of cocoa, among their laundry list of menu items. It is also a great place to people watch. Don’t forget to take a quiet stroll through Central Park, past the Jackie Kennedy Onassis Reservior, which is very pretty covered in snow as seen in the above photos showing the Upper East & West Sides.

LeAnita.com

One of my favorite jewelers is my sister, LeAnita. She was recently featured for a freshwater pearl necklace she made for First Lady, Michelle Obama. It is gorgeous, made with a teardrop pendant from Tibet. LeAnita is also supporting Autism Speaks by donating 10 percent of your purchase on certain items. She has also been featured on FOX News Chicago (the video is available on her website), in Redbook Magazine, Today’s Chicago Woman and other publications. All of LeAnita’s necklaces are made from semi-precious gem stones and sterling silver. She uses a lot of amber, onyx, turquoise and topaz for many of her pieces. I am fortunate to get a sneak peek at many of her designs before anyone else, but sometimes I see her jewelry for the first time when I see a woman walking down the street with a “LeAnita” around her neck or wrist!

Sundance Day #6

Today the Sundance Film Festival celebrated the Inauguration of President Barack Obama. Televisions were set up outdoors as a large crowd gathered to watch the swearing-in ceremony. As a true reflection of what Obama represents, the crowd was filled with interracial couples and bi-racial children. One of those couples who we ran into was actor Phil Morris (son of actor Greg Morris) and his wife Carla. Morris has been in many shows & movies, but one of his more popular roles is the one he played in Seinfeld as Kramer’s attorney, Jackie Chiles. Cory did his best impersonation of that character for Morris, who found Cory to be very amusing. We also told him of the movie we saw a few days ago, coincidentally named “I Love You Philip Morris,” which I talked about in my Day #4 blog entry. It is a new day for this country, which is evident by the fact that more people worldwide watched the Inauguration than any other event in the history of television. Hopefully the election of this new president will open the door for the respect of our differences and a greater appreciation for what we all have in common.

Sundance Day #5

We attended two movies today. One was with Peter Gallagher, called Adam. It is about a twentysomething who suffers from Asperger Syndrome and must learn to live an independent life. The movie brought much needed attention to this often overlooked disease, but the movie itself was a bit disjointed. The second movie was called The Messenger, starring Woody Harrelson. The premise is a really good one. It follows two Army soldiers whose sole job is to tell military families that their loved one has been killed in the Iraq War. The rules are strict about telling families the bad news. The soldiers must use a guided script when telling families how their love one was killed. The messenger delivering the tragic news is also told to never touch the next of kin who is receiving the bad news. No hug, no handshake-just tell them that their relative was killed in the war and leave. The Messenger started as a great movie with excellent performances. Then something went wrong! Too many story lines was the downfall of what could have been a really good feature film. The story lines became so long, that I fell asleep! I simply could not help it. Closing my eyes and nodding off was the only way I could end my personal misery of sitting through a movie that had sadly lost its focus.

Sundance Day #4

One of the greatest aspects of Sundance is that we have the opportunity to watch the stars watching themselves on the screen during the movie premieres. We had the chance to sit two seats behind Jenny McCarthy & her long-time boyfriend Jim Carrey as he saw himself in his premiere, “I Love you Phillip Morris,” also starring Ewan McGregor. In the movie, “I Love you Phillip Morris,” Carrey plays a very dedicated church-going man who loves Jesus, his wife & little girl. He sings in the choir and is dedicated to his family until one day he realizes that he is gay. His antics as a con-artist land him in a Texas prison (consistently), which is where he cultivates a very intimate relationship with McGregor. During the screening, Jenny McCarthy was whispering to Jim Carrey, especially during some of his more intimate scenes on screen with Ewan McGregor. When the movie ended, she gave him a huge hug & kiss before he took the stage to answer questions from the audience. This is one of the best ways to view a film-while sitting near the stars who are often watching themselves in the movie for the first time before it is released. I do not know if this film will be picked up in the mainstream theaters or if it will go directly to HBO. I do know that Carrey earned me as a fan in this film. I usually avoid his movies, because I’m not too keen on his extreme humor, but I give this one a thumbs up. Ewan McGregor was EXCELLENT in this movie & very believable in his role. He is an amazing actor and gave a great performance.

Sundance Day #3

Readers of this blog know that several years ago, Cory & I had the opportunity to meet Pierce & Keely Brosnan at the Sundance Film Festival in 2005. Today we saw him in the movie, The Greatest, a movie about parents (Pierce Brosnan & Susan Sarandon) who lose their son in a tragic car accident and how each copes with her/her grief. It is shot in the suburbs of New York and has a picture perfect setting for the All-American family. When tragedy strikes, the family and their friends unravel as they try to wrap their heads around what has happened to their son. This movie was very powerful and emotional and a must-see when it eventually hits the theaters. Viewers of this film cried through much of the movie. For that matter, Susan Sarandon, who sat in the audience with Pierce & the rest of the cast, cried while watching the movie as well! After the movie we headed to the Chicagoans at Sundance Party, hosted by Brenda Sexton. It was great to be this far from the Windy City with a room full of people fleeing the Chicago cold for the mountains of Utah.

Sundance Day #2

The celebrities are slowly starting to trickle into Park City and Harry O’s continues to be the hot spot at night. Tonight, rapper Young Jeezy performed. I am not a personal fan of rap or hip hop (especially when the “N” word gets thrown around left & right), but he did give a good performance. Afterwards, we headed to a private party in a home further in the mountains until 4:30 AM-which is why I look so wretched in my photo!. Wesley Snipes was running around the house dressed in all white with a ski hat, using a fake Jamaican accent trying to convince people that he was NOT who he is. If someone said his name, he would ask, “Who’s Wesley?” It was quite bizarre. He also kept putting his hand in front of his face if someone looked him in the eye. This party only had 150 people, so obviously, someone was bound to talk to him & want a photo too. Wesley is much shorter than I thought, about 5’8” and very skinny. When asked if we could take photos with him he absolutely refused. Quite frankly, I am not surprised. Wesley was exactly what I expected and sadly, completely the antithesis of celebs at Sundance. They are usually laid back, accom0dating and eager for a photo op with fans. Wesley can learn from a dude named Louis who plays “Turtle”’s uncle on the show, Entourage. He was an amazing guy to talk to. Most likely because he has not achieved enough fame for it to go to his head, though when he does, I think he will still be a very down to earth man. Saturday night is another private party-this one is for Chicagoans at Sundance.

Sundance Day#1

The Sundance Film Festival kicked of tonight. As celebrities and movie-goers descended on Salt Lake City, Utah, opening night was with DJ Nick Cannon. He played everything form the 80s to now at Harry O’s on Main Street. Surprisingly, it was not a packed house. I’ve been told that lodging is down 10-15 percent this year at Sundance and the street was not as filled with “Sundancers” as usual. Tomorrow, a film with Philip Seymour Hoffman officially kicks off the 2009 Sundance Film Festival. Today we had a tour of several venues that are still under construction, but will be ready by tomorrow for the first day of the Festival. These venues will be used by celebrities as nightly “hang out” spots or used for press junkets. It is currently 3 a.m. and my first movie viewing is in eight hours. More to come from the Festival of the year tomorrow...which is actually later today!

Sundance Film Festival or BUST!!

We are heading to the Sundance Film Festival again! I have not been in a couple of years, so it will be nice to return this year. Cory proposed to me at the top of Snow Bird Mountain during our first trip to Sundance in 2003. Over the years, we have been very fortunate to hobnob with the celebs, including a cozy evening of conversation with Pierce & Keely Brosnan a couple of years ago. Given the issues I’ve had with my back, I’ve also learned to travel a bit more lightly. Instead of my standard suitcases, my rolling duffle is at the door and ready to go. Considering half the bags traveling through airports are black, mine is distinctly marked so I can find it quickly and head up the mountain on the other end.